Poloaiga e puipuia ai sauaga i totonu o aiga: auala, taualumaga ma le faamalosia

E ofoina atu e le tulafono a Holani ni ituaiga se tolu o poloaiga puipuia faasaga i sauaga i totonu o aiga, e tofu lava ma se punaoa eseese. E mafai e le pulenuu ona faʻamalosia se poloaiga le tumau e faʻateʻa ai tagata mai totonu o aiga (tijdelijk huisverbod) lea e aveʻese ai le tagata o loʻo faʻamataʻu mai le fale mo aso e sefulu, e mafai ona faʻalauteleina i le fa vaiaso; e mafai e se faʻamasinoga faʻalemalo ona faʻamalosia se faʻasa ona fesootaʻi pe faʻasa ona auai i se vaega o le atunuʻu i faʻamasinoga faʻapuʻupuʻu (kort geding); ma e mafai e se faʻamasinoga tau solitulafono poʻo le loia a le malo ona faʻamalosia se faʻasa ona fesootaʻi i se mataupu tau solitulafono.

Which route fits depends on how urgent the situation is and whether the police are already involved. If you are in immediate danger, call 112 first; the legal steps can follow.

O a poloaiga puipuia o loʻo iai i Netherlands?

E leai se poloaiga e tasi e taofia ai i le tulafono a Holani. E tolu auala eseese: o se poloaiga fa'apulega e ala i le pulenu'u, o se poloaiga fa'alemalo e ala i le fa'amasinoga i fa'agasologa fa'apu'upu'u, ma se poloaiga fa'asolitulafono e feso'ota'i ma se moliaga.

E eseese auala i le tagata e amataina, le vave o le latou galuega ma le auala e faʻamalosia ai. O le poloaiga faʻasaʻoloto faʻalotoifale le tumau e sili ona vave ma e amata e leoleo ma le pulenuu. O le faʻasaina o fesootaʻiga faʻalemalo e amata e oe, faʻatasi ai ma se loia. O le faʻasaina o fesootaʻiga faʻasolitulafono e amata e le Public Prosecution Service (Openbaar Ministerie, OM) pe a uma ona maua se lipoti a leoleo. E mafai foʻi ona tuʻufaʻatasia auala. O se poloaiga faʻasaʻoloto le tumau e masani ona e maua ai le taimi e sauniuni ai faʻamasinoga faʻalemalo mo se puipuiga umi.

O a mea e ta'ua o sauaga i totonu o aiga?

O sauaga i totonu o aiga o sauaga ia e faia e se tasi mai lau li'o o le aiga: o se paaga, o se paaga muamua, o se tagata o le aiga po'o se tasi e nonofo faatasi ma oe. E sili atu nai lo na o sauaga faaletino e aofia ai.

E iloilo e le faamasino ma le pulega le mamanu atoa o amioga. E aofia ai le sauā faaletino, faamata’u, faamata’u ma le faamaasiasia, tuliloaina ma le faasauā, ma le puleaina o au tupe, fesootaiga po o gaioiga. E le tatau ona i ai se sauā faaletino. O se paaga sa i ai muamua e faaauau pea ona auina atu ni savali, e sau i lau galuega e aunoa ma se valaaulia ma faalatalata atu i au uo ma aiga e mafai ona tuuina atu se mafuaaga talafeagai mo le faasaina o fesootaiga.

O le tele o nei amioga o se solitulafono foʻi. O le faʻasauā (faʻaaogaina sese o le tagata) e faʻasalaina i lalo o Mataupu 300 i le 304 o le Tulafono Faʻamasino a Holani (Wetboek van Strafrecht, Sr), ma i lalo o le Mataupu 304 Sr o le faʻasalaga maualuga e faʻateleina i le tasi vaetolu pe afai o le tagata na aʻafia o le ava, paʻaga poʻo le tamaititi a le tagata solitulafono. O faʻamataʻu e faʻasalaina i lalo o le Mataupu 285 Sr. O le faʻamataʻu (faʻasauā) e faʻasalaina i lalo o le Mataupu 285b Sr, ae e molia pe afai e faila e le tagata na aʻafia se tagi (klacht). O le mafuaʻaga lea e taua ai le taʻu manino atu i leoleo e te manaʻo e molia le tagata.

E fa'apefea ona galue le poloaiga fa'aesea fa'alotoifale le tumau?

E mafai e le pulenuu ona poloaina le tagata o loʻo faʻamataʻu e alu ese mai le fale mo aso e sefulu ma aua neʻi toe fesootaʻi ma oe poʻo tamaiti i lena taimi. E mafai e le pulenuu ona faʻalauteleina le poloaiga i le maualuga o le fa vaiaso.

O le poloaiga e faʻavae i luga o le Tulafono o le Poloaiga Faʻasaʻolotoina Faʻalotoifale Tumau (Wet tijdelijk huisverbod). I le faʻatinoina, e iloilo e leoleo le tulaga pe a uma se faʻalavelave ma fautuaina le pulenuʻu, o ia lea e mafai ona faʻatinoina loa le poloaiga. E faʻaaoga pe a iai le tagata i totonu o le fale e mafua ai se taufaʻamataʻu matuia ma vave pe masalomia foʻi se lamatiaga matuia. E te le tau talosaga lava oe mo lea mea, ma e le o se poloaiga a le faʻamasinoga.

I totonu o aso e sefulu, o le Veilig Thuis, le nofoaga autu mo fautuaga ma lipoti mo sauaga i totonu o aiga ma sauaga i tamaiti, e ofoina atu le fesoasoani i tagata uma e aafia ai. Ona filifili lea e le pulenuu pe manaomia se faaopoopoga. E mafai e le tagata ua aveesea mai le aiga ona lu’iina le poloaiga i luma o le faamasinoga fa’afoe. E tusa ai ma le malo o Holani , o se tagata e le usitaia le poloaiga e ono faasalaina i le falepuipui e oo atu i le lua tausaga pe auauna atu i le nuu. O le solia o se solitulafono i lalo o le Mataupu 184a Sr.

O le poloaiga fa'asa'oloto o se fuafuaga pu'upu'u. Afai e te mana'omia se puipuiga mo le silia ma le fa vaiaso, e tatau ona e fa'aogaina le auala fa'asivile po'o le auala fa'asolitulafono.

E fa'apefea ona e maua se fesoota'iga fa'alemalo po'o se fa'asā i lou eria?

E te talosaga atu i le faamasino fesoasoani muamua (voorzieningenrechter) o le faamasinoga itumalo, i taualumaga puupuu, e faasaina le isi tagata mai le faafesootai oe pe mai le oo mai i nisi o nofoaga. E te manaomia se loia e amata nei taualumaga.

O le faavae faaletulafono o le tulafono i amioga sese (onrechtmatige daad) i lalo o le Mataupu 6:162 o le Tulafono Faasivile a Holani (Burgerlijk Wetboek, BW). E tatau ona e faia ia talafeagai le amioga a le isi tagata e le tusa ai ma le tulafono ia te oe ma e iai sou manaoga faanatinati i se faasaina. Ona fuafua lea e le faamasino lou manaoga i le saogalemu ma le le faalauaiteleina e faasaga i le saolotoga o le isi tagata e feoai ai. O le mea lea, o se faasaina ua faatulagaina i mea e manaomia: o se faasaina o fesootaiga, o se faasaina o le ulufale atu i se auala faapitoa (straatverbod) po o se faasaina o se vaega lautele (gebiedsverbod), mo se vaitaimi faatulagaina.

E tusia e lau loia se tusi samani (dagvaarding) e fa'amatala ai mea moni ma fa'amaoniga, ma talosagaina le fa'amasinoga mo se aso e fa'amasino ai. I mataupu fa'anatinati e masani ona fa'atulaga se fa'amasinoga i totonu o ni nai vaiaso, o nisi taimi e vave atu. Atonu e tali atu le isi tagata ma puipuia o ia lava i le fa'amasinoga. E masani ona faia e le fa'amasino se fa'ai'uga i totonu o ni nai vaiaso talu ona mae'a le fa'amasinoga, ma i mataupu fa'anatinati tele o nisi taimi i le fa'amasinoga lava ia.

This route works well for a pattern of harassment, stalking or intimidation that has not led to an arrest. You and your lawyer decide when to start and which evidence to use, without waiting for the police or the Public Prosecution Service.

E fa'apefea ona fa'amalosia se fa'asā fa'alemalo?

O le fa'asā fa'alemalo e lē fa'amalosia e ala i moliaga fa'asolitulafono ae e ala i se totogi fa'asalaga (dwangsom) mo soliga ta'itasi. E mafai fo'i e le fa'amasino ona fa'atagaina le fa'a falepuipui fa'alemalo (lijfsdwang) pe afai e foliga mai e le aoga se totogi fa'asalaga.

O le totogi o le sala tupe o lona uiga e aitalafu le isi tagata ia te oe i se aofaʻiga tumau i taimi uma e solia ai e ia le faʻasā, e oʻo atu i le maualuga ua faʻatulagaina e le faʻamasino. E mafai ona e aoina le aofaʻiga e ala i se leoleo (gerechtsdeurwaarder). Afai e leai se tupe a le tagata, e itiiti se aʻafiaga o se totogi o le sala tupe. Ona mafai lea e le faʻamasino ona faʻatagaina le falepuipui faʻalemalo, o lona uiga e mafai e leoleo ona taofia le tagata mo se taimi faʻatapulaʻa pe a uma ona solia. Tausia se faʻamaumauga ma le faʻaeteete o soliga uma, aua e te manaʻomia ona faʻamaonia pe a e aoina le sala tupe pe talosaga mo le faʻamalosia.

O le solia o se fa'asa fa'alemalo e mafai fo'i ona aofia ai se solitulafono lava ia, mo se fa'ata'ita'iga o le tuliloaina po'o le fa'amata'u. I lea tulaga e mafai fo'i ona e lipotia i leoleo. Afai e te mana'omia pea le puipuiga pe a muta le fa'asa, e tatau ona e toe amata ni fa'agasologa fou. Ona va'ai lea o le fa'amasino pe o iai pea le fa'amata'u.

O le ā e mafai ona fai e le faiga o faamasinoga tau solitulafono?

Afai e te lipotia se solitulafono, e mafai e le loia a le malo (officier van justitie) ma le faamasinoga solitulafono ona faia se faasaina o fesootaiga po o se faasaina o le eria i le tagata ua masalomia. E te le amataina lenei auala oe lava; e mulimuli mai i lau lipoti a leoleo (aangifte).

E mafai ona fa'atulaga se fa'asa ona fesoota'i i ni nai la'asaga. Afai e taofia le ua masalomia i le falepuipui a'o le'i faia le fa'amasinoga ona fa'asa'oloto lea a'o fa'atali le fa'amasinoga, e mafai e le fa'amasinoga ona fa'apipi'i ni tuutuuga i lena fa'asa'olotoga, e pei o le fa'asa ona fesoota'i. E mafai fo'i e le loia a le malo ona fa'atulaga se poloaiga tau amio (gedragsaanwijzing) i lalo o le Mataupu 509hh o le Tulafono Fa'atonutonu Tau Solitulafono (Wetboek van Strafvordering, Sv) a'o fa'atali le mataupu. A mae'a ona fa'asalaina, e mafai e le fa'amasinoga ona fa'atulaga se fa'asa ona fesoota'i pe fa'asa ona o se nofoaga e fai ma tuutuuga fa'apitoa o se fa'asalaga fa'amutaina (Mataupu 14c Sr) po'o se isi fua fa'atatau e fa'atapula'a ai le sa'olotoga (Mataupu 38v Sr).

O le solia o tulafono e iai ona taunuuga faasolitulafono. E mafai ona toe taofia le ua masalomia, e mafai ona faamalosia se faasalaga faasolitulafono, pe mulimuli i ai se isi faasalaga (vervangende hechtenis). O lea la, o lenei auala e ofoina atu ai se puipuiga malosi, ae e gaoioi i le saoasaoa o leoleo ma le Ofisa o Moliaga Lautele ma e faalagolago i a latou faaiuga. E mafai ona e faamatala atu ou manaoga i leoleo ma le loia o le malo, ma i le avea ai ma se tagata ua aafia, e iai lau aia tatau e logoina ai oe e uiga i le mataupu.

According to the government, the Public Prosecution Service can prosecute domestic violence without a complaint from the victim, except for offences that by law require a complaint, such as stalking. A conviction also leaves a mark on the offender’s faamaumauga faasolitulafono.

Pe tatau ona e alu muamua i leoleo pe i se loia?

Afai o e i ai i se tulaga lamatia pe ua faia se solitulafono, alu muamua i leoleo. Afai o le faafitauli o se faiga sauā e aunoa ma se faalavelave faafuasei, pe e te manaʻo e pulea le faagasologa, o se loia e masani lava o le laasaga muamua e sili atu.

A police report (aangifte) starts a criminal investigation and can lead to a temporary exclusion order or a criminal contact ban. It is also important evidence in any later civil case. A lawyer, on the other hand, can start civil summary proceedings on your behalf without waiting for the police or the prosecutor. The two routes do not exclude each other: many victims report to the police and ask a lawyer to seek a civil ban at the same time.

A fa'apefea pe afai e fa'alagolago lau pemita nofomau i lau pa'aga?

Afai e te nofo i Netherlands i luga o se pemita nofomau e fesoʻotaʻi ma lau paʻaga, o le tuua o lena paʻaga e mafai ona aʻafia ai lau pemita. O le Ofisa o Femalagaaiga ma le Naturalisation Service (IND) o loʻo i ai se faʻatulagaga faʻapitoa mo tagata ua aʻafia i sauaga faʻaleaiga o ē ua leiloa lo latou aia tatau e nofomau ai ma a latou paʻaga.

I lalo o lena faatulagaga e mafai ona e talosaga mo le faaauauina o le nofomau i lau lava aia tatau. O le a manaʻomia e le IND ni faʻamaoniga o le sauāga, ma o se lipoti a leoleo e masani lava o se vaega taua o lea mea. Saili vave fautuaga i lou tulaga nofomau, aʻo leʻi e alu ese pe faʻamutaina aloaia le mafutaga, ina ia aua neʻi leiloa ou aia tatau e aunoa ma le iloa.

E faʻapefea ona e fausia se finauga malosi?

A request for a ban succeeds or fails on evidence. In summary proceedings the judge decides on the documents and the hearing, so a record of dozens of unwanted messages in a few days weighs far more than a single angry message.

Tausia fa'amaoniga numera

Do not delete threatening messages, emails or voicemails. Take screenshots in which the date, time and sender are clearly visible. Save posts and messages on social media as well. Keep the original files in case the other side disputes a screenshot.

Tausia se fa'amaumauga o mea na tutupu

Tausi se fa'amaumauga o mea tutupu ta'itasi i totonu o se api talaaga tumaoti po'o se polokalama saogalemu. Mo mea tutupu ta'itasi, tusi i lalo:

• le aso ma le taimi;
• o fea na tupu ai;
• o le mea na tupu ma le mea na fai mai ai;
• igoa o soʻo se molimau;
• so'o se manu'a po'o ni mea ua fa'aleagaina, fa'atasi ai ma ata.

A consistent log creates a timeline that is hard to dispute. Order it from the oldest to the most recent incident, so the judge can see the pattern.

Aoina faamaumauga aloaia ma faamatalaga a molimau

E tāua tele pepa aloaia mai vaega lona tolu e le faaituau. Fesili atu mo se kopi o soʻo se lipoti a leoleo, ma fesili i lau fomaʻi mo se faʻamatalaga poʻo lau faila faafomaʻi pe afai na e manuʻa. E mafai foʻi ona lagolagoina lau tala e ala i fesootaʻiga ma Veilig Thuis poʻo se fomaʻi lautele.

Written statements from friends, family, neighbours or colleagues who saw the behaviour can be persuasive. A colleague who confirms that your ex-partner waited outside the office every day provides independent proof of stalking under Article 285b Sr.

O le ā e tupu i le iloiloga a le faamasinoga?

In summary proceedings you, your lawyer and the other party appear before the judge, who asks questions to understand what happened and why a ban is necessary.

The judge will want to know how often the behaviour occurs, how it affects you and why other measures are not enough. Concrete facts (what happened, when and where) persuade more than general accusations.

O le a tuʻuina atu i le isi itu le avanoa e tali atu ai. Afai e te fefe e te i ai i le potu e tasi, taʻu muamua i lau loia. E mafai e le faʻamasinoga ona faia ni fuafuaga, e pei o le faʻatulagaina o oe e faʻatali i se isi potu.

O le ā e tupu pe a uma ona tuʻuina atu se poloaiga?

O le taimi lava e tuuina atu ai e le leoleo se faamasinoga faalemalo i le isi tagata, e tatau ona ia usitaia. E aoga se poloaiga tau solitulafono po o se poloaiga faapulega mai le taimi lava e tuuina atu ai ma faailoa atu ai.

Typical conditions are a ban on any contact, directly or through others, including by phone, text, email and social media; a ban on coming to a particular street or area, such as your home, workplace or the children’s school; and a ban on following or watching you.

Keep a copy of the decision at hand. You may want to give a copy to your children’s school or your employer, so they know what to do if the person turns up.

O le ā e tatau ona e faia pe afai e solia le poloaiga?

Fa'amuamua lou saogalemu ma lipoti le soliga o le tulafono. 'Aua le fa'afesaga'i oe lava ma le isi tagata.

1. Afai o e i ai i se tulaga matautia i le taimi lava lea, alu i se nofoaga saogalemu ma valaau le 112.
2. Afai e leai se lamatiaga vave, vili leoleo i le 0900-8844 ma ta'u i ai ua solia se fa'asa mo fesoota'iga po'o se eria. Ia tu'uina atu le fa'ai'uga.
3. Faamaumau le soliga o le tulafono: ata o le pusa, taimi, nofoaga ma igoa o molimau.
4. Fa'ailoa i lau loia. Mo se fa'asā fa'alemalo, e mafai e lau loia ona aoina le totogi o le sala tupe pe talosaga mo se fa'a falepuipui fa'alemalo. Mo se poloaiga fa'asolitulafono po'o se fa'atonuga fa'apulega, e faia e leoleo ma le loia a le malo se gaioiga.

Aua le tali atu i savali mai le isi tagata, e tusa lava po o le a le foliga mai e le afaina. So'o se fesoota'iga e fa'asā e le poloaiga o se soliga lea, po'o le a lava le leo.

Ae fa'apefea fanau ma fa'atulagaga fa'amatua?

O le fa'asa ona fesoota'i i le va o mātua e lē fa'amutaina ai loa le fesoota'iga i le va o se matua ma le fanau. Afai e lē saogalemu le fesoota'iga ma le fanau, e tatau i le fa'amasinoga fa'aleaiga ona faia se fa'ai'uga eseese.

I le faʻatinoga, o lona uiga e masani ona manaʻomia ona fetuʻunaʻi faʻatulagaga o loʻo iai nei, mo se faʻataʻitaʻiga ina ia tuʻuina atu tamaiti e ala i se isi vaega poʻo se nofoaga e vaʻavaʻaia e fesoʻotaʻi ai. I lalo o le Mataupu 1:377a o le Tulafono Faʻa-Holani, e mafai e le faʻamasinoga ona faʻatapulaʻaina pe faʻafitia le fesootaʻiga i le va o se matua ma se tamaititi pe afai o le fesootaʻiga o le a matua afaina ai le atinaʻeina o le tamaititi. O la matou tusiga i le fuafuaga faʻamatua i le mataupu o le teteʻa o loʻo faʻamatalaina ai le auala e faia ai ma suia ai faʻatulagaga e uiga i tamaiti.

E maua fo'i le lagolago. E tu'uina atu e Veilig Thuis (0800-2000) fautuaga ma fesoasoani, ma e ofoina atu e le Victim Support Netherlands (Slachtofferhulp Nederland) le lagolago fa'atino, fa'alagona ma fa'aletulafono i ē ua a'afia i solitulafono.

What can we do for you with a protective order?

O lo tatou loia aiga assist in summary proceedings for a civil contact or area ban and advise on the police and criminal route alongside it.

• We assess your evidence and advise which route fits: the mayor’s exclusion order, a civil ban or a criminal ban.
• We draft the writ of summons and ask the preliminary relief judge for an urgent hearing date.
• We propose a contact or area ban tailored to your situation, backed by a penalty payment for each breach.
• We have the judgment served by a bailiff and collect penalty payments after a breach.
• We advise on the effect on contact arrangements for the children and, where relevant, on your residence permit with the IND.

aotelega

• E tolu auala o le tulafono a Holani: o se poloaiga fa'asa le tumau mai le pulenu'u, o se fa'asā fa'alemalo i fa'amasinoga fa'apu'upu'u ma se fa'asā fa'asolitulafono e feso'ota'i ma se moliaga.
• E sefulu aso le umi o le poloaiga fa'asa ma e mafai ona fa'aopoopo i le fa vaiaso; o le solia o lea poloaiga o se solitulafono.
• E faʻamalosia le faʻasā faʻalemalo faʻatasi ai ma se totogi o le sala tupe ma atonu o le falepuipui faʻalemalo; e te manaʻomia se loia e maua ai.
• O fa'amaoniga e faia ai le faaiuga i le mataupu: teu savali, se faamaumauga o mea na tutupu, faamaumauga aloaia ma faamatalaga a molimau.
• E na'o le fa'amata'u ma le fa'asauā e molia ai pe afai e fa'asea le tagata ua a'afia, o lea ia ta'u manino i leoleo e te mana'o e molia.

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